Many times when we fall in love we give everything and trust that the other person will return all that love we give. Unfortunately, there are people who do not value and simply let time pass until one gets tired and ends up with a broken heart.
Since I do not want you to hurt yourself anymore, if you are in a similar situation, I will tell you the truth and I will tell you what the signs are that show that he simply does not care so much.
Your decisions are less important than his.
Something as simple as going to see a movie can become terrible for you since you always have to see what he wants. If you do not mind your opinion or want to please from time to time, you have a very clear signal.
He will tell you that for everything you do drama.
If he did something that affected you (he was late, he did not remember his anniversary, etc.) and you end up being reprimanded and exaggerated, I think you should consider whether they should continue together.
Neither the mind will pass the option to cancel plans.
If he prefers to go on vacation with his friends instead of going to your graduation, you may realize that you are not one of the main things in his life.
You will have a daily need to tell you that he loves you.
Since it never shows that you care or love you, you will constantly ask questions such as: How far do you want me? Would you like to always be with me?
Do not feel guilty for asking, in reality, all you want to know is what it really feels for you. I think with that you already have the answer.
It never gives you surprises (no matter how simple they are).
It is not that you want to give you expensive things or that daily comes with flowers, the only thing you ask is that you send a nice message to your inbox, call you or come to your house with movies surprise.
It does not answer your Facebook statements.
If you tag it in a comment, he is not even interested in giving it alike, let alone commenting.
The plans you make always have to involve your friends.
Parties, meetings, vacations, and others always have to do with their friends. If you ask him to go with your friends, he will make your faces and finally tell you that he does not want to go.
When he talks about his future, he always speaks in the first person.
In the talks he has about his future, he always speaks in the first person and you are never included in him.
For example: "I really want to travel all over Europe."
If they have a discussion, he will explode quickly and easily.
If you scream or you feel threatened when they argue, get away! He does not deserve to even be called a man.
Sometimes he lies to you.
If you have discovered that you lie with simple things like: "I go to my house", but in reality, you go with your friends and similar things, you simply can not trust him ever.
If you are going through this, there is no other solution but to end that relationship before it is too late and there are more problems.
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